tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-55873602811879823222024-02-09T00:29:17.299+05:30Knw urself and knw lifeKnw urself and Knw life is a place where you can relax, get an instant break from chores and smile a lil to live your life to the fullest .. This blog is aimed at making you feel good about you and your life and to let everyone knw that life is not a bed of roses .. life is How you take it .. how u make it .............Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-80110387879024202002021-02-22T17:28:00.001+05:302021-02-22T17:28:19.682+05:30कोशिशकोशिश
कहते हैं कोशिश करने वालो की हार नहीं होती
लेकिन कोशिश कितनी करनी है और कब तक करनी है, किस दिशा में करनी है .. ये कौन तय करेगा
ये आप तय करेंगे
आपकी मंज़िल, आपके सपने, आपकी ज़िन्दगी ... सिर्फ आपकी है और आप ही तय करेंगे कि इसका कब क्या करना है...
अगर आप कुछ सोच सकते है तो यकीन मानिए आप वो कर भी सकते है...कोई रुकावट आपको रोक नहीं सकती ...
मुश्किलों से भाग जाना आसान होता है,
हर वक़्त ज़िन्दगी का इम्तिहान होता है,
घबराने वालो को नहीं मिलता दुनिया में कुछ,
लड़ने वालों के क़दमों में आसमान होता है...
निखरना और बिखरना .... आप तय कीजिये .... मश्किलें तब भी थी .. अब भी हैं ...Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-58338983393538617662021-02-12T22:09:00.000+05:302021-02-12T22:09:00.364+05:30PARENTING ... TWO OF THE GREATEST GIFTS WE CAN GIVE OUR CHILDREN ARE ROOTS AND WINGS ...
We give the ROOTS OF RESPONSIBILITIES to our children, but we miss out on WINGS OF INDEPENDENCE ... Sometimes on the name of religion, caste, colour, gender or any other stupid idea including so called "Sanskars". We usually judge a child on the basis of his behaviour, but actually its parent's reactions which transforms a child into what he is today. Being a parent is a big responsibility as we are the ones who shows the right way to the children. We try to prepare the way for our kids, however we should prepare the child to walk onto any path ... BELIEVE your child and he will do WONDERS !!!.Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-33248198884364846472021-02-09T11:59:00.001+05:302021-02-09T11:59:48.405+05:30ITS OKAY TO MAKE A MISTAKE...<b><i>Mistakes means you are trying ... Mistakes means you are still working ... Mistakes proves that you have not yet surrendered...</i></b>
Make Mistakes .. but don't repeat them. Making mistakes is better than faking perfections.. Mistakes should be expected, respected and inspected.. Learn from your mistakes and move on ... We learn from failure, not from success... We can't succeed untill we work ... we can't work without making mistakes ... we can't learn without them and we can't be perfect without them ... KEEP DOING .. Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-74407272164596648792021-02-01T11:41:00.000+05:302021-02-07T09:49:08.868+05:30LIFE ... A BIG DEAL<p><b><i><span style="color: #ff00fe; font-size: large;"> LIFE </span></i></b></p><p><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><i>YOU CAN'T ENJOY THE SUNSHINE WITHOUT THE RAIN</i></span></p><p><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><i>YOU CAN'T ENJOY LIGHT WITHOUT DARKNESS </i></span></p><p><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><i>AND</i></span></p><p><span style="color: #2b00fe;"><i>YOU CAN'T ENJOY HAPPINESS WITHOUT PAIN</i></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When I was a student, I leant about the light, about heat .. why there were no chapters of darkness or cold in Physics. Because I feel, absence of light is darkness, absence of heat is cold. This means its still light which is not there .. there is no concept like darkness. Same goes with LIFE. When there is no light in our life, we feel depressed. We feel as if we are finished. We become puppets of our own self. But I suppose, we should not limit ourselves to anything at any cost. God tests us not to show us our weakness, but to show HIM our strength. </span><b><span style="font-size: medium;">Remember, a director gives the most difficult role to the best actor</span></b><span style="font-size: medium;">. The person who is the winner is the not the one who never failed, but the one who never quit. We fail when we stop trying. God knows when to send you what you need. Keep using all your resources, push your limits, challenge your limits and only stop when you are </span><b style="font-size: large;">proud of yourself. ALL WE HAVE IS NOW and THIS.</b></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><b style="font-size: large;"><br /></b></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ff00fe; font-size: medium;"><b><i>Take Care</i></b></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #ff00fe; font-size: medium;"><b><i>Shubhali</i></b></span></p>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-59342097526381348522021-02-01T11:01:00.001+05:302021-02-01T11:01:22.902+05:30life changes as priority changes<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Life is totally dependent on your priorities ..... One needs to set priorities to lead a comfortable life ... </div>
Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-59298211299227249372010-07-03T00:42:00.004+05:302010-07-03T01:08:17.950+05:30Trust Urself....<span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >Its me who can do it....</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><br />Japanese proverb: If one can do it, u too can do it .. If none can do it, u must do it....<br />Follow ur heart, ask questions to urself and then feel the answer .. whatever u think is correct.. go ahead.. trust ur heart and urself and u will find ur way out....<br /><br /></span><span class="indquote_link"><span style="font-size:130%;">Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons. Love yourself, trust your choices, and everything is possible. As soon as u trust urself, u will learn how to live, how and what to decide and how to go about it ... Put trust in your ideas and not circumstances .. If u r not confident abt urself, no one will ...<br /><br />Always keep in mind that self-trust is the essence of heroism .. A bird who sits on a branch of a tree is not afraid of falling because she trusts not the branches but her wings ... she has confidence in herself...</span><br /></span>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-69328442868519969702010-02-26T22:43:00.003+05:302010-05-09T00:56:28.080+05:30The Mantra for a Happy Life ...<span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-size:130%;" >Being Happy Is Easy and Its in my Hands!!!!<br /><br /></span>I believe "Everything that happens, happens for good" ... Sometimes when we want to achieve something and try for it and fails, we think we are not worth it and stop trying and get frustrated .. We give excuses, like "this happens to me everytime" or "Why always me" or "God is not with me and m not lucky etc.. etc..<br />Have you ever used bow and arrow, or have u ever seen how to aim an arrow through bow .. To make the arrow go far away, we pull it back and then aim it and throw.... Similarly, if we are trying and failing each time, stop and think whats going wrong .. set back, give urself another chance and then aim and shoot urself to achieve ur goal ..<br />Positive Thinking always will help u getting ur goals set right and this will keep u happy always .. If u feel bad by failing, u will never be able to achieve ur goals .. This is bcz u will never get that energy which comes from positivity and ability that you shud knw abt u... and hence u will never try ....<br />Being happy resolves many of your problems, even in day to day life and provides you what your daily food cannot... Everyday try to make at least two people happy, one of those shud be you ... and see how beautiful world is, how nice people are and how easy it is to achieve your goals ...Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-1723896312423296782009-10-27T22:04:00.001+05:302009-10-27T22:06:37.525+05:30<span style="font-size:130%;">A Warm hello to all my friends and blog readers .. I will be away from writing for some time now for a specific reason ...<br /><br />U will find me back soon .. Till then take care and Have a Good Day</span>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-77412002489481120262009-09-26T02:54:00.007+05:302009-09-26T06:42:54.881+05:30Have fun..........Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!<span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" >In between goals, is a thing called life that has to be lived and enjoyed</span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-weight: bold;">...</span><br /><br />Everyone of us live for some goals in our lives .. We spent a lot of time preparing for that .. Being a kid, we have lots and lots of fun, then studies, vocational courses, stress in life, social life etc comes and our lives are overwhelmed with them ... Sometimes we don't even remember when we smiled last .. or when we had fun .....<br /><br />Fun is a state of mind. If you have a zest for life, you will never miss out on fun. Don't be uptight all the time. Drop your worries and just learn to chill-out.<br /><br />Its not easy to forget what is going on in life, but its OK to be a kid sometimes .. forget about worries, forget about goals, forget about stress, forget about what is going to happen next... and laugh as loud as you want, as loud as u can .. run as much as u can, leaving the stress behind .. open your hands in the blowing breeze and feel like flying .....<br /><br />Dance as though no one is watching you; love as though you have never been hurt before, sing as though no one can hear you, live as though heaven is on earth.<br /><br />If you do this once a week .. you will be stress free and then can go ahead to achieve goals with a new zeal ..<br /><br />Try it .......... it helped me ...... may help you too :)<br /><br /></span>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-69599769918595571372009-08-28T02:19:00.005+05:302009-08-28T02:52:42.841+05:30Obstacles!!!!!!<span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-family:Verdana;" > <span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204);">Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve one's condition!!!!</span><br /></span><b><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-family:Verdana;" ><br /></span></b></span><span class="sqq" style="font-size:130%;">Most of our obstacles would melt away, if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them ...</span><span style="font-size:130%;"> Obstacles will look large or small to you according to whether you are large or small .. Meaning its the attitude which decides whether the obstacle is big or small ... For the positive attitude, the bigger the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it ..<br />The one with negative attitude, try to blame others for the obstacles and do not do there own bit ... God gives you hurdles as he thinks u r capable of overcoming it .. If he has faith in you, why not u urself ...<br />Lemme tell u a short story which tells exactly what i meant to say .. Its the attitude that makes difference...<br /></span><p style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 204);"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">In ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it.</span></span></span></p> <span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" ><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 204);"> </span></span><p style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 204);"><span style="font-family:Verdana;">Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the big Stone out of the way. Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. On approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. As the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a Purse lying on the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many others never understand.</span></span></span></p><p style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Trust in GOD always, He gives u situations because he knws that u can handle it :)</span></p>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-61464642652918299212009-08-10T03:12:00.003+05:302009-08-14T02:55:27.717+05:30Helping Hands<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SoSEuzp1VLI/AAAAAAAAAFI/zLCSGbs_pKk/s1600-h/help.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5369562595406992562" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 148px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 38px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SoSEuzp1VLI/AAAAAAAAAFI/zLCSGbs_pKk/s320/help.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><strong><em>"There is more happiness in giving than in receiving."</em></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I dont understand why people do not want to help others ... If they are asked to they will make excuses .. I m quite far, i have no time etc. etc. Every one in this world needs help some time or the other .. and it is related to the feeling and emotions you have for human kind to help .. If you decide to help someone, nothing can stop you. Its inside you and nothing else ...</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Let me tell you a short story.. It seems to be a lil unrealistic but is of great help in understanding my point for view ...</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">An old man lived alone in Minnesota. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and mentioned his situation. Dear Son, I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won't be able to plant my potato garden this year. I hate to miss doing the garden, because your mother always loved planting time. I'm just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren't in prison. Love, Dad Shortly, the old man received this telegram: "For Heaven's sake, Dad, don't dig up the garden!! That's where I buried the GUNS!" The next morning, A dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what happened, and asked him what to do next.His son's reply was: "Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It's the best I could do for you from here." </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Moral of the Story :- NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD, IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS NOT WHERE YOU ARE OR WHERE THE PERSON IS...</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-25609311440823686842009-04-18T01:13:00.004+05:302009-04-18T02:56:43.391+05:30LIfe in a moment!!!!!!!!!!<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SejyuhBcVcI/AAAAAAAAAEg/Dyu7IlXNkDc/s1600-h/themoment.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5325773440317937090" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 113px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 135px" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SejyuhBcVcI/AAAAAAAAAEg/Dyu7IlXNkDc/s320/themoment.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;">"If you spend your whole life waiting for the storm, you'll never enjoy the sunshine"</span></em></strong></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">We keep on thinking what has happened to us in past, our mistakes, sorrows, people's behaviour etc and keep worrying about our future, but we forget to live in present which we get only once .. The moment we are living right now will never come back... We normally forget that TODAY is the FIRST DAY of the rest of the life ... If you wont start living today, then u will regret this moment in future as we are doing now abt our past .. Forget past .... forget future ... Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. Dream as you will live forever and live as u will die today ... The present moment is your life, what's going to happen next moment no one knows ... Today is life - the only life you are sure of. </span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">That doesn't mean u leave everything like a happy-go-lucky kind of a person .. The only thing i want to point out is to live life in the moment, not only worry abt past and future ... Simple question urself .. <span style="color:#cc33cc;">If not now, then When???</span></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Make the most of today. Live life so completely that when death comes to you like a thief in the night, there will be nothing left for it to steal.</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-13478507119425190532009-04-10T23:29:00.005+05:302009-04-11T01:02:05.622+05:30Happiness!!!!<span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">"Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn't know you left open"</span></em></strong><br />Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it. It is not very difficult to be happy, just need to have that vision which can see happiness in small things ... Many people wait for big things to happen, and hence ignore small things to get happiness... Happiness is not only in getting something we don't have, but to accept and appreciate what we have ... Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you have decided to look beyond imperfections .. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><br />Happiness cannot be kept with oneself .. It shud be shared and once shared it is increased .. Thousands of candles can be lit by a single candle and the light of the candle will not get dim ...<br /><br />Happiness is in your mind .. You need to be present and aware for grabing happiness in everything .. Truely said: It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you areor what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about it.....<br />The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet .. This means people think that if I achieve that particular level of satisfaction (no matter how far it is), then only I will be able to get happiness in my life, However it is possible to be happy with small things happening in life .. This doesn't mean that we shud loose focus towards our goal or take it lightly, but it means that while on the way to the goal we shud not be very tensed or tired, We shud find happiness near us to keep us light and energetic so that we can reach our goal ... Happiness increases positivity in mind and hence we can reach our goal ............<br /><br />When i asked someone today abt happiness, she said : "its a dew in desert, money for begger, love for a lover, and success for learner, marks for student, it has different forms for me. its just like a smile on face n giggle in someone's heart because of me" ...<br /><br />One more thing i would like to point out, It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere ......<br /><br />Finally, happiness is increased when shared, Its like a Kiss which when shared is enjoyed .......Keep smiling and spread it too ...............</span><br /></span>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-78266471689156280802009-03-24T03:01:00.008+05:302021-02-02T20:03:28.389+05:30Dream!!!!!!<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Scgr8kuk1WI/AAAAAAAAAEY/JxH3kLriEOw/s1600-h/hello.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316547679762044258" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Scgr8kuk1WI/AAAAAAAAAEY/JxH3kLriEOw/s320/hello.jpg" style="cursor: hand; float: left; height: 150px; margin: 0px 10px 10px 0px; width: 116px;" /></a>
<div><span style="font-size: 130%;"><strong><em><span style="color: #cc33cc;">"Dream is not the one which you see in sleep, DREAM is something which can't let you sleep"</span></em></strong>
When we were a kid, we all were asked "what do we want to become", and then with no intention in mind of thinking what we are saying we say anything that comes to our minds .. Then when we grow up and understand things, we really want to become something, to do something, has all the excitement, enthu and strength to show this world .. Then when we grow older, we have all the resposibilities to fulfill and hence we do not work for ourselves ... And the common excuse we give is "TIME" .. However this is not time that matters but we have lost focus .............
<span style="color: #0b5394;">To dream anything that you want to dream, that's the beauty of the human mind. To do anything that you want to do, that is the strength of the human will. To trust yourself to test your limits, that is the courage to succeed ... Every great dream begins with a dreamer</span><span style="color: #66ffff;">.</span> Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to do what u want to..... Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart ... </span>
<span style="font-size: 130%;">Its you who have to live ur own life, no one else will come and make u understand what u need to do .. u need to be self motivated and u need to show the world that you are someone .. Its ur name which need to be shine.. and finally its you who can do it ...so when everything is related to you, why not dream too ... When you dream, U act to fulfil it ... and that act let u to ur destination..</span>
<span style="font-size: 130%;">Being a dreamer is not simple... It needs courage, when you see everyone is against you.. It needs patience when you see everything is going into vain.. It needs strength, when you want to put it into an Act .. It needs will power to convert the negatives into positives .. and finally it needs a lot of smile on the face to lessen frawns and increase expectation and belief in urself .....</span>
<span style="font-size: 130%;">At Last, I would like to repeat myself -- Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-72608110057040311162009-03-23T01:40:00.005+05:302009-03-23T03:36:31.164+05:30Crazy Thoughts<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Sca2W-ECgFI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/pLkE3JV1j1U/s1600-h/crazy.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316136915890765906" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 73px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 118px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Sca2W-ECgFI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/pLkE3JV1j1U/s320/crazy.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">We all are are busy these days i knw .. However, as we need few times for us ... Lemme tell you something, as a refreshment, quite funny but still meaningful if thought deeply .. I have a whole bunch of it but this is enough for now to think .. I dont want you to be tired of thinking all these ........</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Here are some of the funny, crazy but meaningful questions and requires attention ...</span><br /><span style="color:#cc33cc;"><em><span style="font-size:130%;">1) If man evolved from monkeys and apes, why do we still have monkeys and apes?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">2) Why doesn't Tarzan have a beard, though he was a jungle boy?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">3) Why doesn't glue stick to the inside of the bottle?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">4) Why is it lemon juice contains mostly artificial ingredients, but dishwashing liquid contains real lemons?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">5) If "con" is the opposite of "pro," then what is the opposite of progress?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">6) When I erase a word with a pencil, where does it go?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">7) What would a chair look like if your knees bent the otherway?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">8) Why are they called buildings, when they're already finished? Shouldn't they be called builts?</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">9) Why do scientists call it research when looking for something new? They are not re-searching it ...</span></em><br /><em><span style="font-size:130%;">10) If nobody buys a ticket to a movie do they still show it?</span></em><br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;">I m still trying to find the respective meaningful answers ... If you have it just lemmme knw ......</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-628253779587473922009-03-16T01:33:00.005+05:302009-03-16T02:00:19.591+05:30Smile Again!!!!!<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Sb1k9JBcSBI/AAAAAAAAAEI/LzGpj0RqfLI/s1600-h/smile.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5313514136923818002" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 111px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 111px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Sb1k9JBcSBI/AAAAAAAAAEI/LzGpj0RqfLI/s320/smile.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">"Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy"</span></em></strong><br />Enough of gyan session these days .. Lets have some simple pass time so that u can smile and relax urself of a busy schedule ...<br /><em><span style="color:#33ccff;">"One fine day, a bus driver went to the bus garage, started his bus, and drove off along the route. No problems for the first few stops - a few people got on, a few got off, and things went generally well. At the next stop, however, a big hulk of a guy got on. Six feet eight,built like a wrestler, arms hanging down to the ground. He glared at the driver and said, " Big John doesn't pay!" and sat down at the back.<br />Did I mention that the driver was five feet three, thin, and basically meek? Well, he was. Naturally, he didn't argue with Big John, but he wasn't happy about it. The next day the same thing happened - Big John got on again, made a show of refusing to pay, and sat down. And the next day, and the next. This grated on the bus driver, who started losing sleep over the way Big John was taking advantage of him. Finally he could stand it no longer. He signed up for body building courses, karate, judo, and all that good stuff.<br />By the end of the summer, he had become quite strong; what's more, he felt really good about himself. So on the next Monday, when Big John once again got on the bus and said, " Big John doesn't pay!" The driver stood up, glared back at the passenger, and screamed, " And why not?" With a surprised look on his face, Big John replied, " Big John has a bus pass."<br /></span></em>The Moral behind this is not every person is bad .. Do not scare of strong people as they are not always meant to harm you ............... :)</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-14016200312487468142009-03-05T20:13:00.008+05:302009-03-06T00:24:31.103+05:30The Other Side!!!!!!!<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SbAf2rT_OTI/AAAAAAAAAEA/i7MhWZ7Ognw/s1600-h/success.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309778984869771570" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 117px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 119px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SbAf2rT_OTI/AAAAAAAAAEA/i7MhWZ7Ognw/s320/success.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">Do it! Move it! Make it Happen! No one ever sat their way to success</span></em><br /><br />Why always me??? Why did God did this to me??? etc ... etc ... We can hear such complaints from every one who is undergoing a problematic situation ... This is a common tendency, people do not face the situation but try to complain and run from it ... In my opinion, God puts you in a situation which He knws that you can handle. It might seem difficult to you, coz you are looking at one side of the problem which looks complex and dangerous ... Guys... We are God's Children .. He cannot be that cruel or harsh on us ... He always provides a simple way to tackle with that tough situation.. The thing is we need to be smart enough to grab that opportunity .. We need to have that eye that can look towards the simple way .. There is always the other side to everything, which just requires a smart look and we are through ...<br />Lemme tell you a small story...............<br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">“A Father was reading a magazine and his little daughter every now and then distracted him. To keep her busy, he tore one page on which was printed the map of the world. He tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again. He was sure she would take the whole day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map.<br />When he asked how she could do it so quickly, she said, 'Oh… Dad, there is a man's face on the other side of the paper. I made the face perfect to get the map right."" she ran outside to play leaving the father surprised.”<br /></span></em>Friends, There is always the other side to whatever you experience in this world. This story indirectly teaches a lesson. That is, whenever we come across a challenge or a puzzling situation, look at the other side...You will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem...<br />Smile now and be ready to face every situation in life with a positive energy and intelligent eye ...</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Always visualize only favorable and beneficial situations. Use positive words in your inner dialogues or when talking with others. Smile a little more, as this helps to think positively. Disregard any feelings of laziness or a desire to quit ... Once a negative thought enters your mind, you have to be aware of it and endeavor to replace it with a constructive one. The negative thought will try again to enter your mind, and then you have to replace it again with a positive one. In case you feel any inner resistance when replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, do not give up, but keep looking only at the beneficial, good and happy thoughts in your mind.</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-3127762317276312512009-03-03T20:12:00.004+05:302009-03-04T03:24:40.328+05:30Anger!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Sa2nAYsydaI/AAAAAAAAAD4/rlabm1OgXEA/s1600-h/anger.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309083160811828642" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 124px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 114px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/Sa2nAYsydaI/AAAAAAAAAD4/rlabm1OgXEA/s320/anger.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><strong><em>"For every minute u r angry, u lose sixty seconds of happiness"</em></strong></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Someone said that to me and i was stunned ... How right he was .... We always try to relax and be happy, we always try to smile and let the sorrows and flawns go away ... We always try to take time out of our busy schedule to be happy, but never thought about the time we are angry ... We are angry on someone when our expectations are not met. We can say it is an outcome of frustration or failure, if we dont get things done our way, we may get angry ... but then what will be the result of anger, did anyone think abt this .. Health Problems, social moral problems yes .. but what about the time we ar wasting in anger ... According to me, there are two things a person should not be angry at, what they can help and what they cannot .... If we can do anything about the reason of anger, go ahead and do .. If feel cannot, then try to get a step ahead and change the things, But if it is out of reach, why to be angry at .........</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Anyone can become angry. That is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way... that is not easy.</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Anger can lead to broken hearts, tearful eyes and distant relationships .. Lemme tell you a small story ....</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><em>A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.' 'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?' Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint. Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.' Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...' The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'</em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The greatest remedy for anger is delay. If you feel angry just stay calm and give urself some time and then everything will be all right .. A person cannot think when his mind is in anger ... And moreover if you think that you are wasting some time of your precious life in being angry, you will never be angry with anyone ..... </span></p>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-72514960500856323662009-02-18T20:57:00.011+05:302009-02-19T02:42:28.300+05:30Matratava<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SZxNmajIrKI/AAAAAAAAADg/Z_pkNzqL6xU/s1600-h/mom1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5304199783492660386" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 213px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SZxNmajIrKI/AAAAAAAAADg/Z_pkNzqL6xU/s320/mom1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SZxNVZf52NI/AAAAAAAAADY/GPAZWHzpC8o/s1600-h/mom.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5304199491152894162" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 213px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SZxNVZf52NI/AAAAAAAAADY/GPAZWHzpC8o/s320/mom.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">MATRATAVA - MOTHERLY LOVE............</span></em></strong><br /><br />There is nothing to write about the love a mother can give to her child after looking at these pictures ... The ultimate love and affection a lady can give is to her kid .. No matter she is physically ill or indisposed, she never compromise with the love and care for her child ... Truely said, "God cannot go to check and care for all the people on the earth, hence He created Mom" .. Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved .. The mother is everything .. she is our consolation in sorrow, our hope in misery, and our strength in weakness. She is the source of love, mercy, sympathy, and forgiveness. He who loses his mother loses a pure soul who blesses and guards him constantly.<br />When God thought of mother, He must have laughed with satisfaction, and framed it quickly.. so rich, so deep, so divine, so full of soul, power, and beauty....<br />Mom can fight with the whole world, with God, with destiny, with Illness, with physical disability but cannot compromise when it comes to her child....The pics shows the same...<br /></span></div></div><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible... And kids give nothing to their mom .. We say my Mom do not knw anything about todays life, she is so old fashioned .. that's nothing but just generation gap .. When we reach the same age we think in the same manner ....</span><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">So, I was talking abt the mother in the pic ... By any chance do you see signs of problem, disguise, or imcompletion from her face .. She feels so lucky to have two kids and a loving and caring husband ... She looks so complete ... That's actually the internal strength everyone needs in oneself to live life, to provide love to your dear ones .. That internal strength is needed to go one step ahead and do the things which others think you cannot ...... And a girl get that strength by looking at her child, by having a child, by thinking that she is a mother, by facing the difficulties in her child's life..........</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">That's MATRATAVA</span></p>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-39336780784847441712009-02-14T22:21:00.003+05:302009-02-14T22:46:39.235+05:30Innocence<p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;">"Innocence - make us smile"</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Kids are really smart and they know the power of latest technologies and internet, they understand the meaning of movies and what is being shown to them .. However these kids still express their views in their own way which is quite amazing, interesting and innocent ...</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">We asked the kids from class III to V a few questions about GHAJINI and here are the most amazing and innocent replies we got from them ....</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">(1) How did Aamir Khan develog such a muscular body??</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Kid:- He was sufferring from memory loss, so he used to exercise and forgot that he has exercised .. and he did it all over again ...</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">(2) What will u tell Sanjay Singhaniya if you meet him one day?</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Kid:- I will tell him that Ghajini is alive and is studying in my class. And he has changed his name to Akash ....</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">(3) What was the scariest part of the movie?</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Kid:- The scariest part was when we came out in interval and there were so many Sanjay Singhaniyas selling pop corn....</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">(4) Why did it take such a long time for Aamir to find Ghajini?</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Kid:- He lost his memory, so he didn't remember how to use Google and manual search took him so long .....</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">These answers are one more reason to smile .. Being with kids releases our tension and gives us various reasons to smile ... Kids are God's gift, a soft creation, a clean drop of water, so pure, so calm, so innocent, so true, so cuddly, so emotional... If you pass a short period of time with a kid, u will find urself away from all politics and impurities of social life ......</span></p>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-67585050823821742312009-01-31T03:35:00.005+05:302009-02-04T03:28:02.457+05:30Music!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SYi94cjjCuI/AAAAAAAAADI/CJhZ2Y-XuDE/s1600-h/music.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5298693739037002466" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 309px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SYi94cjjCuI/AAAAAAAAADI/CJhZ2Y-XuDE/s320/music.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;">"Music is an outburst of the soul"</span></em></strong><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Music speaks what cannot be expressed, soothes the mind and gives it rest, heals the heart and makes it whole, flows from heaven to the soul. Music is a medium to express what you feel ... Music is your soul which remains with you in every good or bad situation of life ... If you are happy, music increases ur happiness, if u r sad, it can be ur best pal which can share your feelings ... Someone truely said "We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams.” Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and cannot remain silent... </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Music relaxes ur mind and soul ... It gives strength ... It has power ... It speaks your emotions ... It shows ur innerself ... Just think of your life without music ... Music has became so important that it can be used as a therapy .... Music Therapy is an established healthcare profession that uses music to address physical, emotional, cognitive, and social needs of individuals of all ages. Music therapy improves the quality of life for persons who are well and meets the needs of children and adults with disabilities or illnesses.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Enjoy with me the beautiful words of George Parsons Lathrop.<br />Music of Growth<br />'Music is in all growing things;</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">And underneath the silky wings</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Of smallest insects there is stirred</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">A pulse of air that must be heard;</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Earth's silence lives and throbs and sings.' ...................</span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-30275782876678742502009-01-22T07:41:00.000+05:302009-01-25T00:55:32.564+05:30LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SXtrIqcRZaI/AAAAAAAAADA/Zsju6cgosXU/s1600-h/love.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5294943583480145314" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 140px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 93px" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SXtrIqcRZaI/AAAAAAAAADA/Zsju6cgosXU/s320/love.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SXffnox99cI/AAAAAAAAAB4/GDPqWyKFLLY/s1600-h/love.jpg"></a><br /><div><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;">"Love Makes Your Soul Crawl out from its Hiding Place"</span></em></strong> </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The dictionary meaning of LOVE is -- a strong positive emotion of regard and affection </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">In my opinion LOVE is.... </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>"If you luv someone because u think he/she is gorgeous, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>then it is not love it is infatuation </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If u luv someone bcz u think u shudn't leave him/her bcz others think that u shudn't , </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>then its nt love its compromise </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If u luv someone and u think u cant live without him/her touch, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>then its not luv, its lust </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If u luv someone bcz u cant leave him/her thinking it might hurt his feelings, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>then its not luv its charity </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If u luv someone because u share everything with him/her, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>then it not luv its friendship </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>BUT if u feel the soul of the other person than him/her, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>That's love </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If u get attracted to other ppl but stay wid him/her without any regrets, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>Thats love </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If u let him go knwing he has to go but he does not wanna go, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>Thats love </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>If he leaves u and u let him go, </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><em>When he comes back to you That's LOVE" </em></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Love is the condition in which the happiness of your soul mate is essential to your own... </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">You really shouldn't say "I love you" unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget to do so and hence sometimes are mistaken... These small things can lead to misunderstandings and then mishappenings like a broken relationship, broken heart, sad life etc ........ </span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The correct way to find the deepness of your love, in my opinion, is to be apart for some time ... Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and fans the bonfire.</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Love makes your life happier, ur face beautiful, make u smile always and you feel like flying with joy.. you forget everything sad and bad things in life, it fills ur life with positivity.. you tries to forget all the mishappening and u feel like life is beautiful ... Its a precious gift one can get .........................</span></p></div></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-69207575129581541802009-01-08T06:19:00.001+05:302009-01-08T09:00:03.504+05:30wear a smile<em></em><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SWVN9JBb4aI/AAAAAAAAABg/8iniwLFvOEw/s1600-h/smile_comment"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5288719050205815202" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 300px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 252px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SWVN9JBb4aI/AAAAAAAAABg/8iniwLFvOEw/s320/smile_comment" border="0" /></a><strong><em><span style="color:#cc33cc;"> <span style="font-size:130%;">WEAR A SMILE ... NO MATTER WHAT.................</span></span></em></strong><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy. It happens that we are not well inside our heart and thinking of some mishappenings, but tht doesn't mean we will think abt it for long or for ever .. Every thing fades away with time, so dont waste your precious life is thinking abt all such things.. forget fast and smile once again .. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">U never knw there is someone who loves your smile .. Many a times we smile cz we are happy, but sometimes in life we should smile to make ourselves happy ... The harder the conflict, the more glorious the victory. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; it is dearness and love that gives everything its value. I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress and grow. Smiling makes you feel better about yourself, even if you don't feel like it. And it always makes other people think better of you. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Someone said today "u can change your life by changing the way you think" .... and I feel its correct ... I m trying to think better now and feeling the change ..... </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">So Now onwards i wear a smile on the face even at the hardest times of my life ....... U also try .. and u will find it easier to live life................<br /><br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><span style="color:#6600cc;"><em></em></span>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-23914754071158113742009-01-02T07:40:00.000+05:302009-01-02T08:01:26.972+05:30Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SV15sCxIkfI/AAAAAAAAABQ/ar54-p3vyrI/s1600-h/rose.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5286515335166988786" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 259px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_B3A4SrXmyQo/SV15sCxIkfI/AAAAAAAAABQ/ar54-p3vyrI/s320/rose.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">An optimist stays up until midnight to see the New Year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;">The object of a New Year is not that we should have a new year. It is that we should have a new soul and a new nose; new feet, a new backbone, new ears, and new eyes. Unless a particular man made New Year resolutions, he would make no resolutions. Unless a man starts afresh about things, he will certainly do nothing effective. Unless a man starts on the strange assumption that he has never existed before, it is quite certain that he will never exist afterwards. Unless a man be born again, he shall by no means enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#cc33cc;"><strong><em>Wish You A Very Happy NEW YEAR .............</em></strong></span></div>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5587360281187982322.post-999240565338177762008-12-30T03:53:00.000+05:302008-12-30T04:24:24.046+05:30Encourage!!!!!!!!!!!!!<p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#993399;">"To Break down the walls</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#993399;">To Build bridges</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#993399;">To Heal wounds and bring Hope…</span></em></strong></p><p><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#993399;">TO ENCOURAGE"</span></em></strong></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">The finest gift you can give anyone is encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets the encouragement they need to grow to their full potential. If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in most everyone would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond the wildest dreams. We would have more than one Einstein, Edison, Mother Teresa and other great minds in a century ... There are a lot many ways to encourage others .. Lemme tell u a story where one person who is on the death bed encourages other to live .... Quite a touching story but indirectly related to be happy and make others happy too .....</span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;">Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.<br />One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window.<br />The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.<br />The men talked for hours on end.<br />They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.<br />Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.<br />The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.<br />The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.<br />Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats.<br />Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.<br />As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.<br />One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.<br />Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed.<br />One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window.<br />The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.<br />Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.<br />He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.<br />It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.<br />The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."<br /></span></p><p><em><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">"There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations"<br /></span></strong></em><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;">"Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled"<br /></span></em></strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><em>"If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy"<br /></em></strong><strong><em>"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."</em></strong><br /></span></p>Shubhalihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14840309402291147249noreply@blogger.com0