कोशिश

कोशिश कहते हैं कोशिश करने वालो की हार नहीं होती लेकिन कोशिश कितनी करनी है और कब तक करनी है, किस दिशा में करनी है .. ये कौन तय करेगा ये आप तय करेंगे आपकी मंज़िल, आपके सपने, आपकी ज़िन्दगी ... सिर्फ आपकी है और आप ही तय करेंगे कि इसका कब क्या करना है... अगर आप कुछ सोच सकते है तो यकीन मानिए आप वो कर भी सकते है...कोई रुकावट आपको रोक नहीं सकती ... मुश्किलों से भाग जाना आसान होता है, हर वक़्त ज़िन्दगी का इम्तिहान होता है, घबराने वालो को नहीं मिलता दुनिया में कुछ, लड़ने वालों के क़दमों में आसमान होता है... निखरना और बिखरना .... आप तय कीजिये .... मश्किलें तब भी थी .. अब भी हैं ...

PARENTING ...

TWO OF THE GREATEST GIFTS WE CAN GIVE OUR CHILDREN ARE ROOTS AND WINGS ... We give the ROOTS OF RESPONSIBILITIES to our children, but we miss out on WINGS OF INDEPENDENCE ... Sometimes on the name of religion, caste, colour, gender or any other stupid idea including so called "Sanskars". We usually judge a child on the basis of his behaviour, but actually its parent's reactions which transforms a child into what he is today. Being a parent is a big responsibility as we are the ones who shows the right way to the children. We try to prepare the way for our kids, however we should prepare the child to walk onto any path ... BELIEVE your child and he will do WONDERS !!!.

ITS OKAY TO MAKE A MISTAKE...

Mistakes means you are trying ... Mistakes means you are still working ... Mistakes proves that you have not yet surrendered... Make Mistakes .. but don't repeat them. Making mistakes is better than faking perfections.. Mistakes should be expected, respected and inspected.. Learn from your mistakes and move on ... We learn from failure, not from success... We can't succeed untill we work ... we can't work without making mistakes ... we can't learn without them and we can't be perfect without them ... KEEP DOING ..

LIFE ... A BIG DEAL

 LIFE 

YOU CAN'T ENJOY THE SUNSHINE WITHOUT THE RAIN

YOU CAN'T  ENJOY LIGHT WITHOUT DARKNESS 

AND

YOU CAN'T ENJOY HAPPINESS WITHOUT PAIN

When I was a student, I leant about the light, about heat .. why there were no chapters of darkness or cold in Physics. Because I feel, absence of light is darkness, absence of heat is cold. This means its still light which is not there .. there is no concept like darkness. Same goes with LIFE. When there is no light in our life, we feel depressed. We feel as if we are finished. We become puppets of our own self. But I suppose, we should not limit ourselves to anything at any cost. God tests us not to show us our weakness, but to show HIM our strength. Remember, a director gives the most difficult role to the best actor. The person who is the winner is the not the one who never failed, but the one who never quit. We fail when we stop trying. God knows when to send you what you need. Keep using all your resources, push your limits, challenge your limits and only stop when you are proud of yourself. ALL WE HAVE IS NOW and THIS.

Take Care

Shubhali

life changes as priority changes

Life is totally dependent on your priorities ..... One needs to set priorities to lead a comfortable life ... 

Trust Urself....

Its me who can do it....

Japanese proverb: If one can do it, u too can do it .. If none can do it, u must do it....
Follow ur heart, ask questions to urself and then feel the answer .. whatever u think is correct.. go ahead.. trust ur heart and urself and u will find ur way out....

Remember, there are no mistakes, only lessons. Love yourself, trust your choices, and everything is possible. As soon as u trust urself, u will learn how to live, how and what to decide and how to go about it ... Put trust in your ideas and not circumstances .. If u r not confident abt urself, no one will ...

Always keep in mind that self-trust is the essence of heroism .. A bird who sits on a branch of a tree is not afraid of falling because she trusts not the branches but her wings ... she has confidence in herself...

The Mantra for a Happy Life ...

Being Happy Is Easy and Its in my Hands!!!!

I believe "Everything that happens, happens for good" ... Sometimes when we want to achieve something and try for it and fails, we think we are not worth it and stop trying and get frustrated .. We give excuses, like "this happens to me everytime" or "Why always me" or "God is not with me and m not lucky etc.. etc..
Have you ever used bow and arrow, or have u ever seen how to aim an arrow through bow .. To make the arrow go far away, we pull it back and then aim it and throw.... Similarly, if we are trying and failing each time, stop and think whats going wrong .. set back, give urself another chance and then aim and shoot urself to achieve ur goal ..
Positive Thinking always will help u getting ur goals set right and this will keep u happy always .. If u feel bad by failing, u will never be able to achieve ur goals .. This is bcz u will never get that energy which comes from positivity and ability that you shud knw abt u... and hence u will never try ....
Being happy resolves many of your problems, even in day to day life and provides you what your daily food cannot... Everyday try to make at least two people happy, one of those shud be you ... and see how beautiful world is, how nice people are and how easy it is to achieve your goals ...