Anger!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"For every minute u r angry, u lose sixty seconds of happiness"

Someone said that to me and i was stunned ... How right he was .... We always try to relax and be happy, we always try to smile and let the sorrows and flawns go away ... We always try to take time out of our busy schedule to be happy, but never thought about the time we are angry ... We are angry on someone when our expectations are not met. We can say it is an outcome of frustration or failure, if we dont get things done our way, we may get angry ... but then what will be the result of anger, did anyone think abt this .. Health Problems, social moral problems yes .. but what about the time we ar wasting in anger ... According to me, there are two things a person should not be angry at, what they can help and what they cannot .... If we can do anything about the reason of anger, go ahead and do .. If feel cannot, then try to get a step ahead and change the things, But if it is out of reach, why to be angry at .........

Anyone can become angry. That is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose and in the right way... that is not easy.

Anger can lead to broken hearts, tearful eyes and distant relationships .. Lemme tell you a small story ....

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.' 'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?' Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint. Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.' Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...' The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

The greatest remedy for anger is delay. If you feel angry just stay calm and give urself some time and then everything will be all right .. A person cannot think when his mind is in anger ... And moreover if you think that you are wasting some time of your precious life in being angry, you will never be angry with anyone .....

Matratava

MATRATAVA - MOTHERLY LOVE............

There is nothing to write about the love a mother can give to her child after looking at these pictures ... The ultimate love and affection a lady can give is to her kid .. No matter she is physically ill or indisposed, she never compromise with the love and care for her child ... Truely said, "God cannot go to check and care for all the people on the earth, hence He created Mom" .. Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved .. The mother is everything .. she is our consolation in sorrow, our hope in misery, and our strength in weakness. She is the source of love, mercy, sympathy, and forgiveness. He who loses his mother loses a pure soul who blesses and guards him constantly.
When God thought of mother, He must have laughed with satisfaction, and framed it quickly.. so rich, so deep, so divine, so full of soul, power, and beauty....
Mom can fight with the whole world, with God, with destiny, with Illness, with physical disability but cannot compromise when it comes to her child....The pics shows the same...

Mother love is the fuel that enables a normal human being to do the impossible... And kids give nothing to their mom .. We say my Mom do not knw anything about todays life, she is so old fashioned .. that's nothing but just generation gap .. When we reach the same age we think in the same manner ....

So, I was talking abt the mother in the pic ... By any chance do you see signs of problem, disguise, or imcompletion from her face .. She feels so lucky to have two kids and a loving and caring husband ... She looks so complete ... That's actually the internal strength everyone needs in oneself to live life, to provide love to your dear ones .. That internal strength is needed to go one step ahead and do the things which others think you cannot ...... And a girl get that strength by looking at her child, by having a child, by thinking that she is a mother, by facing the difficulties in her child's life..........

That's MATRATAVA

Innocence

"Innocence - make us smile"

Kids are really smart and they know the power of latest technologies and internet, they understand the meaning of movies and what is being shown to them .. However these kids still express their views in their own way which is quite amazing, interesting and innocent ...

We asked the kids from class III to V a few questions about GHAJINI and here are the most amazing and innocent replies we got from them ....

(1) How did Aamir Khan develog such a muscular body??

Kid:- He was sufferring from memory loss, so he used to exercise and forgot that he has exercised .. and he did it all over again ...

(2) What will u tell Sanjay Singhaniya if you meet him one day?

Kid:- I will tell him that Ghajini is alive and is studying in my class. And he has changed his name to Akash ....

(3) What was the scariest part of the movie?

Kid:- The scariest part was when we came out in interval and there were so many Sanjay Singhaniyas selling pop corn....

(4) Why did it take such a long time for Aamir to find Ghajini?

Kid:- He lost his memory, so he didn't remember how to use Google and manual search took him so long .....

These answers are one more reason to smile .. Being with kids releases our tension and gives us various reasons to smile ... Kids are God's gift, a soft creation, a clean drop of water, so pure, so calm, so innocent, so true, so cuddly, so emotional... If you pass a short period of time with a kid, u will find urself away from all politics and impurities of social life ......

Music!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Music is an outburst of the soul"

Music speaks what cannot be expressed, soothes the mind and gives it rest, heals the heart and makes it whole, flows from heaven to the soul. Music is a medium to express what you feel ... Music is your soul which remains with you in every good or bad situation of life ... If you are happy, music increases ur happiness, if u r sad, it can be ur best pal which can share your feelings ... Someone truely said "We dance for laughter, we dance for tears, we dance for madness, we dance for fears, we dance for hopes, we dance for screams, we are the dancers, we create the dreams.” Music expresses that which cannot be put into words and cannot remain silent...

Music relaxes ur mind and soul ... It gives strength ... It has power ... It speaks your emotions ... It shows ur innerself ... Just think of your life without music ... Music has became so important that it can be used as a therapy .... Music Therapy is an established healthcare profession that uses music to address physical, emotional, cognitive, and social needs of individuals of all ages. Music therapy improves the quality of life for persons who are well and meets the needs of children and adults with disabilities or illnesses.
Enjoy with me the beautiful words of George Parsons Lathrop.
Music of Growth
'Music is in all growing things;
And underneath the silky wings
Of smallest insects there is stirred
A pulse of air that must be heard;
Earth's silence lives and throbs and sings.' ...................

LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Love Makes Your Soul Crawl out from its Hiding Place"

The dictionary meaning of LOVE is -- a strong positive emotion of regard and affection

In my opinion LOVE is....

"If you luv someone because u think he/she is gorgeous, then it is not love it is infatuation

If u luv someone bcz u think u shudn't leave him/her bcz others think that u shudn't , then its nt love its compromise

If u luv someone and u think u cant live without him/her touch, then its not luv, its lust

If u luv someone bcz u cant leave him/her thinking it might hurt his feelings, then its not luv its charity

If u luv someone because u share everything with him/her, then it not luv its friendship

BUT if u feel the soul of the other person than him/her, That's love

If u get attracted to other ppl but stay wid him/her without any regrets, Thats love

If u let him go knwing he has to go but he does not wanna go, Thats love

If he leaves u and u let him go, When he comes back to you That's LOVE"

Love is the condition in which the happiness of your soul mate is essential to your own...

You really shouldn't say "I love you" unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget to do so and hence sometimes are mistaken... These small things can lead to misunderstandings and then mishappenings like a broken relationship, broken heart, sad life etc ........

The correct way to find the deepness of your love, in my opinion, is to be apart for some time ... Absence diminishes small loves and increases great ones, as the wind blows out the candle and fans the bonfire.

Love makes your life happier, ur face beautiful, make u smile always and you feel like flying with joy.. you forget everything sad and bad things in life, it fills ur life with positivity.. you tries to forget all the mishappening and u feel like life is beautiful ... Its a precious gift one can get .........................

wear a smile

WEAR A SMILE ... NO MATTER WHAT.................

Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful.
Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy. It happens that we are not well inside our heart and thinking of some mishappenings, but tht doesn't mean we will think abt it for long or for ever .. Every thing fades away with time, so dont waste your precious life is thinking abt all such things.. forget fast and smile once again ..
U never knw there is someone who loves your smile .. Many a times we smile cz we are happy, but sometimes in life we should smile to make ourselves happy ... The harder the conflict, the more glorious the victory. What we obtain too cheap, we esteem too lightly; it is dearness and love that gives everything its value. I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress and grow. Smiling makes you feel better about yourself, even if you don't feel like it. And it always makes other people think better of you.
Someone said today "u can change your life by changing the way you think" .... and I feel its correct ... I m trying to think better now and feeling the change .....
So Now onwards i wear a smile on the face even at the hardest times of my life ....... U also try .. and u will find it easier to live life................

Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

An optimist stays up until midnight to see the New Year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves.

The object of a New Year is not that we should have a new year. It is that we should have a new soul and a new nose; new feet, a new backbone, new ears, and new eyes. Unless a particular man made New Year resolutions, he would make no resolutions. Unless a man starts afresh about things, he will certainly do nothing effective. Unless a man starts on the strange assumption that he has never existed before, it is quite certain that he will never exist afterwards. Unless a man be born again, he shall by no means enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.

Wish You A Very Happy NEW YEAR .............