कोशिश

कोशिश कहते हैं कोशिश करने वालो की हार नहीं होती लेकिन कोशिश कितनी करनी है और कब तक करनी है, किस दिशा में करनी है .. ये कौन तय करेगा ये आप तय करेंगे आपकी मंज़िल, आपके सपने, आपकी ज़िन्दगी ... सिर्फ आपकी है और आप ही तय करेंगे कि इसका कब क्या करना है... अगर आप कुछ सोच सकते है तो यकीन मानिए आप वो कर भी सकते है...कोई रुकावट आपको रोक नहीं सकती ... मुश्किलों से भाग जाना आसान होता है, हर वक़्त ज़िन्दगी का इम्तिहान होता है, घबराने वालो को नहीं मिलता दुनिया में कुछ, लड़ने वालों के क़दमों में आसमान होता है... निखरना और बिखरना .... आप तय कीजिये .... मश्किलें तब भी थी .. अब भी हैं ...

PARENTING ...

TWO OF THE GREATEST GIFTS WE CAN GIVE OUR CHILDREN ARE ROOTS AND WINGS ... We give the ROOTS OF RESPONSIBILITIES to our children, but we miss out on WINGS OF INDEPENDENCE ... Sometimes on the name of religion, caste, colour, gender or any other stupid idea including so called "Sanskars". We usually judge a child on the basis of his behaviour, but actually its parent's reactions which transforms a child into what he is today. Being a parent is a big responsibility as we are the ones who shows the right way to the children. We try to prepare the way for our kids, however we should prepare the child to walk onto any path ... BELIEVE your child and he will do WONDERS !!!.

ITS OKAY TO MAKE A MISTAKE...

Mistakes means you are trying ... Mistakes means you are still working ... Mistakes proves that you have not yet surrendered... Make Mistakes .. but don't repeat them. Making mistakes is better than faking perfections.. Mistakes should be expected, respected and inspected.. Learn from your mistakes and move on ... We learn from failure, not from success... We can't succeed untill we work ... we can't work without making mistakes ... we can't learn without them and we can't be perfect without them ... KEEP DOING ..

LIFE ... A BIG DEAL

 LIFE 

YOU CAN'T ENJOY THE SUNSHINE WITHOUT THE RAIN

YOU CAN'T  ENJOY LIGHT WITHOUT DARKNESS 

AND

YOU CAN'T ENJOY HAPPINESS WITHOUT PAIN

When I was a student, I leant about the light, about heat .. why there were no chapters of darkness or cold in Physics. Because I feel, absence of light is darkness, absence of heat is cold. This means its still light which is not there .. there is no concept like darkness. Same goes with LIFE. When there is no light in our life, we feel depressed. We feel as if we are finished. We become puppets of our own self. But I suppose, we should not limit ourselves to anything at any cost. God tests us not to show us our weakness, but to show HIM our strength. Remember, a director gives the most difficult role to the best actor. The person who is the winner is the not the one who never failed, but the one who never quit. We fail when we stop trying. God knows when to send you what you need. Keep using all your resources, push your limits, challenge your limits and only stop when you are proud of yourself. ALL WE HAVE IS NOW and THIS.

Take Care

Shubhali

life changes as priority changes

Life is totally dependent on your priorities ..... One needs to set priorities to lead a comfortable life ...