Knw Urself and Knw Life.................

"Try to believe the best of Everyone, Trust me you will never hate anyone"

Tuesday, December 30, 2008


"To Break down the walls

To Build bridges

To Heal wounds and bring Hope…


The finest gift you can give anyone is encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets the encouragement they need to grow to their full potential. If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in most everyone would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond the wildest dreams. We would have more than one Einstein, Edison, Mother Teresa and other great minds in a century ... There are a lot many ways to encourage others .. Lemme tell u a story where one person who is on the death bed encourages other to live .... Quite a touching story but indirectly related to be happy and make others happy too .....

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end.
They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.
Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats.
Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.
Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window.
The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.
It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

"There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations"
"Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled"
"If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy"
"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Laugh ........... Loud smile

"Laughter is an instant vacation"

All of us are so busy these days that we do not get time for ourselves and our loved ones .... We are getting stressed, frustrated, upset and tired of the monotonous life we are leading .. We all want to take a long break and have a nice vacation somewhere .. But it would not be possible for all of us at once .. Why not taking a lil break from the busy schedule and smile a lil .. Take an instant vacation and relax urself .. Why am I asking you to relax because ... "Happiness is a perfume.You cannot spread on others without getting a few drops on urself. So always be happy to make others happy !!!!"

(1) TEACHER: Johny, how do you spell "crocodile"? L-JOHNY: "K-R-O-K-O-D-A-I-L" TEACHER: No, that's wrong L-JOHNY: Maybe it's wrong, but you ask me how I spell it!

(2) TEACHER: George, go to the map and find North America. GEORGE: Here it is! TEACHER: Correct. Now, Johny, who discovered America? L-JOHNY: George!

(3) TEACHER: Johny, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago. L-JOHNY: Me!

(4) TEACHER: How can you prevent diseases caused by biting insects? L-JOHNY! : Don't bite any.

(5) TEACHER: Johny, give me a sentence starting with "I". L-JOHNY: I is... TEACHER: No, Johny. Always say, "I am." L-JOHNY: All right... "I am the ninth letter of the alphabet."

Smile yourself now and make others happy too today ...

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Smile is Infectious!!!! U catch it like the FLU

When someone smiled at me, I started smiling too.... Let me tell you something very good happened to me today ... One of my friends is much excited about me and my future .. Was very happy for me as i was undergoing some medication to improve my near future . She was happy by thinking that I will be perfectly all right now.. Unfortunately, I couldn't make it and she was depressed coz of this .. She bought me a gift for the future and as i couldn't make it to complete the medication course, she couldn't gift it to me and was very sad abt it... I was already very depressed .. As she saw that i m also in the same situation and being in the lead role of this Irony and facing this situation for last one and a half year now, she realised and smiled at me ... and said "no worries, just one more month and the new year will bring new joy and happiness to your life ... I m sure abt it" .. At that particular point of time i felt that i m not the only one who is sufferring and praying to God .. There are others with me not only at home but in my friend circle .. it wiped off all my worries and problems and as I said ..."When someone smiled at me, I started smiling too" .....

Seriously, there are times when we need a shoulder to vent all out tears and if we get a smile instead of shoulder of that, it is worth it .......

I m thankful from the deep of my heart to that friend today...

Lets be like her and spread smile like FLU ............

Saturday, December 6, 2008

Reason to smile

U Smile for me !!!! and I will give u a Reason to Smile

What a lovely saying!!! If u have a sweet feeling to show off called smile and u spread it all over, u will get as many reasons to smile ... Everyone will give u a reason .... Thats because if someone wants to u forget worries and problems and he wants u to show ur lovely face with a broad smile, he will try hard to make u smile and if u do, see u got the reason ...

I m trying to give u the reason to be happy in "knw urself and knw life" ...

Chk this ......

Santa enters a store that sell curtains. He tells the salesman, "I would like to buy a pair of pink curtains." The salesman assured him that they had a large selection of pink curtains. He showed him several patterns, but Santa seemed to be having a hard time choosing. Finally, he selects a lovely pink floral print. The salesman asked what size curtains he needed .Santa replies, "Fifteen inches.""Fifteen inches?" asked the salesman. "That sounds very small, what room are they for?" Santa tells him that they aren't for a room, they are for his computer monitor.The surprised salesman replies, "But, sir, computers do not have curtains!" Santa says, "Hellllooooooooo........I've got Windows!"

U need to smile for me now... I will give u other reasons to smile ........................................

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Share a smile

"You can make a difference in a child's life, not only in the way others see them, but in how they will see themselves for years to come"

"Confidence" is something to be build in ... It is not inherited ... The way you look upon a child have a great impact on him, not for that particular moment but for the whole life ... Minds of children are like clear water, whatever color u pour in, they will keep it which lasts for longer .... Treating a child means giving shape to their life ... Be simple, be polite, be kind, wear a smile, make them understand, give them the reasons, let them free on their own with a lil control and u can see the difference .....

Let me tell u a story abt a father and his son .....

The train has started moving. It is packed with people of all ages, mostly with the working men and women and young college guys and gals. Near the window, seated a old man with his 30 year old son. As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed with joy as he was thrilled with the scenery outside.. " See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful" This behavior from a thirty year old son made the other people feel strange about him. Every one started murmuring something or other about this son."This guy seems to be a krack.." newly married Anup whispered to his wife. Suddenly it started raining... Rain drops fell on the travelers through the opened window. The Thirty year old son , filled with joy " see dad, how beautiful the rain is .." Anup's wife got irritated with the rain drops spoiling her new suit. Anup ," cant you see its raining, you old man, if ur son is not feeling well get him soon to a mental asylum..and dont disturb public henceforth" The old man hesitated first and then in a low tone replied " we are on the way back from hospital, my son got discharged today morning , he was a blind by birth, last week only he got his vision, these rain and nature are new to his eyes.. Please forgive us for the inconvenience caused..."

Here Father is with the son in every manner .. He is the one who silently giving happiness to his son .. he is happy with his son ..... quite a touching story na .. gives us a message ... "The things we see may be right from our perspective until we know the truth. But when we know the truth our reaction to that will hurt even us. So try to understand the problem better before taking a harsh action." .. Dont get harsh on children at the first time .. Give time to them and listen to them .. They may not tell you everything as they dont knw what to say .. but you need to listen to them ...................................

Getting the most out of life

"Life is short, Break the rules, Forgive quickly, Kiss slowly, Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile"

LIFE is really very short ..... and in this short life we should grab each and every moment to have fun and smile .. In your life try breaking rules ... stand on the roof with your arms open, do as u like, think from heart, love someone deeply and get someone's love from inside of his heart, kiss like a child and feel it, and laugh as much as u can .......... Do what your heart says and feel the inner happiness ............. I always do what I like and never regret any decision..... I accept everything that comes to my way and find a way out of it to be happy ..... I do this cz I like it ..

OOOPPSSSS!!!!!!! Sorry started gyan session again .....

OK let me tell u abt a movie i have seen which was based on people suffering from AIDS, quite a sensitive and art movie types .. but one thing which i like the most in it was at that particular ashram where these people were there ... no sympathy was shown to them .. They were treated like normal human beings which brought great smiles on their faces ... and one funny thing which I never expected was they had a celebration when someone dies .... Those people never took death as terror ... but as a winning culture over life ...... and this shows that a person full of life also sees life in death ..............

We all have to die one day and ppl who have non-curable disease (as simple as asthama or as big as AIDS), we shud not show them the mirror again and again ... We shud treat them as normal .. I knw laughing is the best medicine .. but it is not good for me (I knw) .. still Never give up .. each step shud be a winning step .................... :)